Earth Day was yesterday (April 22 - And April is also Earth Month), both of these give me space to pause and reflect on the deep, soul-nourishing connection I have with the natural world. Nature has been one of the most consistent companions in my trauma healing journey. And even before I started healing…I felt better when I was outside. I couldn’t explain why earlier in my life and now I love exploring the many reasons why….. Here’s some of them….. When I’m spinning in all my “to do lists”, the things “I keep forgetting” or some form of hyperarousal —the woods, the ocean, even my own backyard offer me a rhythm that’s slower, safer. A rhythm my body can attune to when everything inside feels too much. And when I’ve been stuck in freeze or disconnection, when I want to withdraw and hide or run away from what I said yes to or what I said no to —when the world feels flat and far away—stepping into the sunlight or hearing the birds wake up the trees helps me wake up too. Gently. Compassionately. Without pressure. Nature grounds me when I’m anxious.​ Whether I’m resting in awe of its beauty or moving to match its aliveness, it offers me both roots and wings. Today, (on the day after) Earth Day, I’m not just celebrating nature as a planet or an ecosystem (though yes, that too….And Here & Here are some websites that give great ideas and ways to celebrate our planet)..... But Today… A place to explore. (And I love checking in with nature and my body throughout all the different seasons I get to enjoy in my hometown….) So, with all that said, I want to offer a gentle invitation today...​ No big expectations. What comes up for you? ​ And if you want to add another step….Again no pressure to feel a certain way or have a certain experience, just curiosity for what comes up….. 🪷 Somatically Settle In:​ What comes up for you? ​ And if you feel like sharing, I’d love to hear:​ Whether you’re planting your feet in the grass, soil, on the sidewalk or just pausing to feel the sun on your face—I hope you let this Earth Day (and this Earth Month) remind you that you belong here. Fully. Deeply. Naturally. 💚 With dirt on my feet and gratitude in my heart I invite you to.... Remember, ❤️ You Matter. Your Healing Matters. You Are Worth It! P.S. I am continuing to heal right along with you all. Last week's email was all about how the length of my hair could cause a visceral fight response in my body.... Here's the Episode about it... ​ |
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As a child, I used to get in trouble for humming—usually at the dinner table. I often didn’t even realize I was doing it until someone asked me to stop. By the third or fourth time, it wasn’t just about the humming anymore—I was now “being disobedient.” I’d get scolded for being noisy and for not listening. What no one realized—including me—was that I was soothing myself the only way I knew how. It wasn’t until I was in my 40s that I learned how powerful vibration can be for the nervous...
As a child, I used to get in trouble for humming—usually at the dinner table. I often didn’t even realize I was doing it until someone asked me to stop. By the third or fourth time, it wasn’t just about the humming anymore—I was now “being disobedient.” I’d get scolded for being noisy and for not listening. What no one realized—including me—was that I was soothing myself the only way I knew how. It wasn’t until I was in my 40s that I learned how powerful vibration can be for the nervous...
I’ve been hearing two very different things from so many women lately: ✨ “Summer feels slower. The schedules ease up. I finally have a little breathing room.” ✨ “Summer feels even more hectic. Kids are home, vacations are planned, family visits… it’s a different kind of busy.” I’m curious — which one sounds more like you right now? ✨ Or is it somewhere in between? Whether this season feels spacious, a bit overwhelming or both, all these experiences can affect the nervous system in very real —...