It’s almost the end of January.

And you might be feeling it —​
the push or pull to do all the New Year goals others are talking about.

Even if, back in early January, you quietly committed to yourself:
​This year, I don’t want to start this way.

If that’s you, I want to invite you back to the softness.

Back to what you already know about January —
that it’s still winter.​
That it belongs more to rest, listening, and conserving energy than to new beginnings.

Spring will come.
That type of Growth will come.

But January and Wintering asks something different of the nervous system.

Why sustainability > resolutions

Resolutions (especially ones that don’t take trauma into account) often ask the body to change through pressure or willpower.​
​They push for movement before safety is established.

Sustainability does the opposite.

It says:

• You don’t have to rush.
• Small, consistent practices matter.
• Healing grows when the body feels safe enough to stay.

One client shared recently:​
​“I am healing without forcing anything. I found a couple of practices that work for me and I do them - almost daily - and it’s working.”

That’s nervous-system-led growth.​
Slow. Soulful. Sustainable.

And yes — it does create the results people want.

Nervous-system-led growth isn’t the absence of change, goals, or forward movement.​
It leads to what so many people healing trauma are longing for:

• fewer triggers
• more regulation
• clearer boundaries
• deeper connection
• a steadier sense of self

The difference is how those results are created.

Instead of forcing the body to comply, this approach allows healing to happen from the inside out — in a way that actually heals and continues healing over time.

For trauma healing, this distinction matters.

Because healing isn’t about thinking harder or fixing yourself faster.
​It’s about learning how to process, not ruminate (that causes us to often get stuck).

Processing means experiencing emotions, sensations, and thoughts fully enough to learn what your body is telling you. It means staying present long enough for the nervous system to gather new information and find resolution.

Ruminating keeps us looping — thinking about the same feelings or stories again and again without gaining new insight, relief, or integration.

Nervous-system-led growth gently brings the body into the conversation.

When the body feels safe enough to experience what’s there — even in small, titrated doses — insight emerges naturally in the way our body speaks to us.

Patterns loosen.

Capacity expands.

And change becomes something the system can actually hold.

And we learn our body's specific healing language.

It's an amazing process to learn to converse with our body.

This is why slow doesn’t mean stagnant.​
And gentle doesn’t mean ineffective.

A 2-minute nervous system reset

If you notice pressure, guilt, or the sense that you’re already “behind,” try this:

1. Place one hand on your chest and one on your belly.
2. Inhale gently through your nose.
3. Exhale slowly through your mouth, letting the exhale lengthen.
4. On the exhale, quietly say: “There is no rush.” OR let yourself give an audible sigh on the exhale

Stay for two minutes - letting yourself inhale and exhale
​No fixing. No changing. Just listening and learning.

That alone can help your system remember: I’m allowed to move at my pace.

Gentle ways to work with your breath

If you’re local to Flagstaff:
​I’d love to see you in my in-person Pranayama class Mondays @ 11am @ True North IOI (914 N San Francisco St. Suite M).​
We work with breath in a slow, grounded, nervous-system-informed way — no pushing, no forcing, just learning how your breath supports regulation and safety.

If you’re not local:
​You’re welcome to schedule a call with me, and we can practice pranayama together one-on-one in a way that’s tailored to your nervous system and where you are right now.

This can be especially supportive if:

• group spaces feel like too much
• you want personalized guidance
• or you’re craving a softer, safer way to work with breath

However you choose to begin, know this:

You’re not late.
You’re not doing it wrong.
And winter is still allowed to be winter.

Remember, ❤️

You Matter. Your Healing Matters. You Are Worth It!

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